Ok so im updating now. Things are going really well, W seems to be more involved emotionally now that she has in a long time. We are talking a little more, and she is now starting to accept my Inaiting a little bit of intimacy. Im still doing the 180 where I don't iniate really but last night I did and things heppened. So I will go back to just being cool and let things go. I will let her iniate next time. Which I think might be soon. She seems to be more open to that kind of stuff. So I guess it is working. We don't fight nearly as much as we used to. I think we both have realized that gets us no where. When we do have a argument it is normally about things that need to be argued about. So that is nice. Aside from money issues things have been going well.

Lee