native Sorry for hyjacking your thread. this will be the last I promiss but YES Hope4. I know this, This is the point that I was trying to convey to Native. what ever you do you need to think beyond that moment.
It is so hard not to tell. Wife sometimes acts like it never happened. In side I want to say WHAT? but then agian maybe she is so ashamed that she wants to forget it ever happened.
Native,

It is GREAT PMA to have someone come onto you.especialy when your wife makes you feel worthless. (Mine Did). It would be so easy to "justify" anything. but I think you are a wise man and know in your heart. window shopping is fine but you can't take anything out for a "test drive" until you can afford it.
Like you said. when you are legaly divorced or separated.

Dr Love


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know