Thing is she always put herself down. Id tell her that she wasn't at fault or she is pretty or not fat etc and she would roll her eyes and say "you have to say that" She's always had a self esteem problem.
My W would always say "Ya, but you are biased" when I would say these things to her. I think my W has a self esteem problem too. I never actually reaized it though until after the bomb. my W has always been very confident but I have come to realize (I think) that she is over compensating for a lack of self esteem.
Your W confuses me. I honestly don't know what else to say. Her actions are very confusing. The uncertainty must cause you alot of stress.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
