wow a lockout.

[Gman3388]

She kept putting herself down because she is feeling insecure.

Does she know that you know she is having an A? Are you sure she is?

Thing is she always put herself down. Id tell her that she wasn't at fault or she is pretty or not fat etc and she would roll her eyes and say "you have to say that" She's always had a self esteem problem.
As for the A I didn't bring it up. Ive been told things but she most likely thinks I don't know.
I'm not even entirely sure its the guy I'm thinking of.
But she'll "barrow" OM sweatshirt and wear it at work etc.
Sometimes its like she drops hints or leaves the room when she talks on her cell. Other times she tells me who is texting her.
Not when its him.
Sometimes its damn hard to figure things out so I try not too.
Ive just resigned myself to thinking she might be screwing around on me and I'm standing for my marriage and the vows I made.
She'll either come back or she'll leave.
If you love something, set it free.......