My W and I are woking on ways to put more frequency and excitment back into our sex life. Together we bought a book "101 Grrreat Quickies" by Laura Corn. Every page(or coupon as they are called) in the book is sealed shut. There are 50 coupons for "her" and 50 coupons for "him" to open, read, and then present to your S. Your spouse then has 7 days to "cash in" the coupon.
Our first quickie entitled "Charrrrge" had us both laughing our asses off as I accidentally drew blood from my W after I cut her lip with my flying hands. We finally settled down and got back to cashing in on the coupon.
In the latter stages of our M, I feel as though our sex life came to a point of feeling a little awkward as yours seems to be right now. With these coupons, it feels as though the awkwardness and pressure are being removed because we are both following the same game plan from the coupon.
Previously, my W and I were both a little shy in the area of sex talk. In order to help piece our M back together properly, we are both now willing and able to share our sexual needs and desires. I can't begin to tell you how much more relaxing and exciting having sex with my W is now, with or without the "coupons".
If you and your W are willing to discuss your sex life together, then maybe it's time for both of you to throw away the old sex life and begin with a new one.
- Mark
What goes around, comes around.
My sitch: "Third time's a charm?"