Hi onedge, Could you say something like this to your W. D6 sure packs her bag funny, this time she didn't pack any pants & I had to go buy her some.

As I stated before my H is also depressed. With my 1st DBcoaching session my goal was to be happy around him, be his cheerleader & basically be lighthearted. Make him feel comfortable being around me. That was a 180 for my sitch. I did get results (he contacted me quicker). Maybe that is something you could try?? Have you tried that approach?


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)