Just Thought I would update this a little bit. The last couple of days have been ok then yesterday she is talking to me on the phone and starts mentioning how we will be intimate that night. Myself I should know better and I start getting my hopes up a little bit as she is talking. I answere her with oh yeah that sounds fun and that will be kewl. So on so forth. So after work I go and work out which I have been doing a lot of lately and it is starting to show. After I work out I come home and give her a hug and a kiss. She is acting kind of flirty and stuff.
The good thing is im sticking to my 180 and im not iniating intimacy. Which is really tough for me not to do. I didnt iniate though. I was very loving and stuff while she was around. So about 9:00 pm she decided that she was going to take a nap. I said great and just hung out. She got up about 10:00 came down stairs and hung out with me for about an hour and then it was my bed time. So I gave her a kiss and said good night she said good night and stayed downstairs to watch TV and get ready to go to work. So anyway still nothing even though she talked about it quite a bit today.
The question I have is if she is not connected to me why would she talk about it and flirt. In my head it is saying that she is just doing it to toy with me but I know that is probably not the case. So if anyone can shed some light let me know. Im baffled by this.
Another good thing is the 180 has helped I dont feel hurt or rejected because Im starting to expect this behavior. Im not sure if I should change this 180 as I am not seeing to much pay off. I think I will wait and give it another week or so.
