But I do appreciate the words of caution given to me. This journey is tough, full of questions and uncertainty. It would definitely be easier to count my loses and move on. But have to do everything I can to fight for our marriage and our family.
Well, setting her up in a house with her new boyfriend, is a giant step in the oposite direction, I'd say.
PS: a boyfriend without sex... is still a boyfriend. So even if they arent having sex.. it's almost irrelevant... because he's replacing you, either way.
and eventually, they WILL turn it into a sexual relationship, if they havent already.
you cant support this, if you care about reconciling.
You can say, "it's your decision to do what you want with your life", and 'support' her independance that way. But actually HELPING her do that, is cutting your own throat.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle