Detching is part of DBing, too! So, I think you are doing well. You are seeing him, and communicating with him, without letting him control your emotions. Sounds good to me!
Marks out of 10.....
H is more handsome, in my opinion, and looks like more fun. CEO looks more responsible, and thoughful.
Though the crotch framing thing kind of lowers my opinion there!
Hows that! No marks at all. (Actually, I don't think I can mark guys, it just wouldn't be right!)