That's so great that H discussed the pros and cons of different friends with you- very close and intimate thing to do. I LOVE it!
You're such a babe in total control, Essie, and I love how H is responding to it. I love the way you've reflected on your weekend crash. Very insightful, and I'm keeping my fingers crossed it doesn't happen again.
Which of Michelle's books did you get? I have CYL and GTTTMYL as well as DR. All excellent!