Treese, I know what you are saying about them acting as if all is well in their world. Maybe it is. But what about ours and our childrens? Right?

My H says all the time. "I'm fine" and that is about everything...

Hang in there girl. I don't know if it's right or not. Sometimes I wonder if this is all just a scam and we should just face reality. That they are never coming back and we are all wishing on a pipe dream.

Well...for me, I'm not filing until I absolutely have to. If he wants this D he's going to have to do it.

For now...

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!