I have been there. I came so close to making a decision that at the time seemed right but deep down I knew it wasn't. When it is over it is over. Until then ya can't do anything that can't be fixed / undone. NOBODY in our family knows that my Wife had an affair. It would have made it easier for me to tell them if I wanted out. But..... If we do work things out it will be easier if only we know... Understand? Once I spill the beans I can't undo it. Same thing with "dating". There is no problem going out meeting someone and dancing or just talking BUT I had a problem with keeping it at that. I did not do anything but....Feeling like we do. Sometimes someone listening to you AND a female that cares......It's hard to not become attached. (No pun intended).
Take care buddy
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
