Quote: Some times Im thinking im tired of this and that why should I have to put up with this. Pretending that im ok and that not being intimate on a regular basis is not bugging me. ------------------------------------------------------------ lee, the harsh reality is that if you can't/don't want to put up with it, there will be no intimacy at all. Your 180 is definetly working here. Don't give up. Remember, its going to take time to do this, and you have to accept that.