Kissak, you are incredible. I dont think I could have listened to that from my h. If you honestly did not want to listen, but could not verbalize it, then that is something you should work on.
It really is unbelievable to me that these men can do this. Call their wives crying over the OW. They really are in the twilight zone.
He needs to look inward and work on him. Not your problem. You could be a friend, but, please dont take on his problems - let him deal with it all himself.
