I should note that I did validate him and agree with somethings he said without justifing myself. I used "OK", "I understand", "I agree" a lot

Didn't want ya'll to think I kicked the crap out of XH and then was a total beotch on the phone \:\)

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road