when this kicked off she went to ONE 1 session to say the I am never coming back speech I have to be honest and say that did not shock me, BUT I have a house full of her stuff and a garage full of the other things she left, I have also sent a number of emails asking for her to send me bills so I can pay them this now 3 months in what do I have to do to get her to send the bills. I have lost 20 LB through exercise, so I can get on with life I have to lose another 15 LB at least but I will lose em and get on with life