Jeff! You sound like the X. No seriously thanks for the 2X4! We are D yes and so I need to realize that now more than ever I can't control his life. He said he just knew I was going to find those pics when he left me in the car but becasue they mean nothing he didn't worry about it.
Ok so I just let his mood be his mood right just like his truth is his truth. I can do that (I hope)
For what it's worth I didn't beat him up (lol?) Yes he was shocked! No I won't do that again.
Tonight will get better. I've spoken to him since then and we civilily reached an agreement about something financial that was pending. When we settled it I told him I'm glad we could find a good solution and then got off the phone.
Ok I'm still learning and I think I'm getting it. It's just so hard to break bad habits...well maybe not hard so maybe I'm really stubborn?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
