Rob, Don't beat yourself up. Remember life changes us all in different ways. Maybe she really wasn't like this when you dated. I just feel bad for your D, her Mother is the poster child for dysfunctional. It is absurd she has made the divorce so costly, again it really hurts your D in the end. Why she can't just negotiate terms instead of blaming. Unless she is going to press criminal charges, who cares? One has to wonder if her L told her if she accuses you that she will get more money or full custody or something. I just can't help thinking one of the L's should have said to the other, "look these people don't have a huge amount of money, we should encourage them to come to an agreement.
