That is exactly what I am doing. Im still doing loving things and just not making comments about it, so on so forth just trying to be a little touchy feely but not to the exteme. I am hugging her and kissing her but more like a friend than a husband. If she is walking around or doing some that is reaveling im not saying hey you want to go up stairs. Pretty much I am ignoring intamicy unless she iniates it.