She's never taken responsibility for anything that has happened to her. I know it is my fault to expect proper behavior from her, but I still don't understand how a person can behave like this. I really don't.
Why on Earth didn't I see any of this coming when we were dating? I'm hoping it was b/c I was struggling w/ my own issues so much that I couldn't see all the red flags.
Oh, hey, I did forget to add that I caught W in at least one lie by reading her therapy notes. She said under oath at her deposition that the new wedding ring was my idea, but told her therapist the truth in the therapist notes that it was all her suggestion. I know it is only a small thing, but it is a discovery of at least one truth. Hopefully, we'll uncover more and more as time goes on.
