Well it seems as when I am blunt and to the point about my feelings I get absolutly nothing in return. If I do get something back normally it is well fine maybe it is best if we don't betogether any more so some thing like that. Then I would say well lets try and get some help. Then she would say somthing to the effect of why its not going to do any good we have been doing this for 6 years and we can fix it so.
Just the same dumb argument. Which is basically what happened the other day. So Im going back into act as if mode and see where that takes me. Not talking about my feelings and such.
I would think that she would think that she was lucky to have a guy who is willing to talk to her about her feelings and mine. I dont think she sees it that way. Then again maybe that is not correct maybe she just wants someone around that is there but not really there you know. Im really trying to sort that out.
About the baby thing im not sure really what the reasoning is for her.
