Wow.. gosh, well, it precipitated some honesty from him, which is a good thing and I dont see that he is done with you, but how many more chances does he have to give you before you change your ways !!?? My sister was like this you know (because of PMT), they were together for 12 years, M, then D in that time and still got back together..sort of..he kept on the fence.. but then one day.. that was it, he was done. He met someone else (a chilled out yoga teacher!).

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But I think we had a bit of a backslide today....I yelled, screamed and hit I couldn't believe what I had found. He just took it all in and didn't try to fight me when I punched and slapped him.
..blimey! Jen, you arent together, so as mad and upset as you are about it...you dont really have the right to punch and slap your ex!? Although maybe noone should punch and slap their partner either ! Have you thought about anger management classes!??

Seriously, I'm so glad he's coming for dinner.. and yes, I think you should apologise, but quickly and then let it go.
Good luck !!!
Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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