hi Lee! I havent stopped by in a while and what has happened?? I was a bit worried by your new thread title! The only thing I would add is why is it she wants a baby? For me it was wanting to be a mother and work less. Is she unhappy with her job? May be a long shot and I apologize if I am rehashing. I also think you could communicate more with her- if you think she could get off the couch to say hello, then tell her that that bothers you and makes you feel unappreciated or whatever. Would this be an improvement or not? My H and I were famous for not vocalizing what we felt or wanted and used the old silent treatment to get to the place we are now unfortunately. I missed ya! Shay