I remember FG about a year ago I did tell my h off. He had did something that just crossed the line with me. This was way before I learned patience and silence.

He was at work and wouldn't take my calls. I said you better answer your phone or I coming over to your work and we will settle it now. Snap, he called me back and I let him have it.

I think he said at that point to just file. He was never returning. Ok, in hindsight where did that get me. Miles and miles backwards. Do you think my h has forgotten that. I don't think so. So what did it really accomplish, it hurt more than helped.

It helped me get it out of my system, but then I felt bad. You see what I am doing now is the better and smarter way!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"