Hi 123, I was reading your thread. You need to go back to DB, GAL immediately. You are basing all your needs and feelings on what his reactions. Stop. Read Divorce Rememdy MLC and depression. I am currently dealing with both right now with my H moving out the end of this month. It has been a nightmare. I found the more I tried to guilt him and pressure him - he was running out the door. Originally he said IANH to our 21 year old marriage there was nothing good out it. yes there is OW but not sure if it is EA instead of PA right now. In your best interest get ready for school enjoy your kids, appear happy and you will be happy. Many times I have slipped into the old pattern and I am trying to renew myself till things get better.
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m 52 H 49 D15 D28 bomb IANH 7/27/08 bomb II - OW 8/4 moving out 10/1
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
