I reading a few threads and this one caught my eye. One major sticking point with my H and me (sep for 8 mos ) when we were together was having children. I never felt we were ready and i think he felt a baby would improve things. We have just started some R talks again and it has already come up..."if we get back, will we have baby?" It is hard for me think about right now and answer. Any ideas? Suggestions? Thanks! BTW, my whole post is in Newcomers-HELP big talk on Sunday!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
) when we were together was having children. I never felt we were ready and i think he felt a baby would improve things. We have just started some R talks again and it has already come up..."if we get back, will we have baby?" It is hard for me think about right now and answer. Any ideas? Suggestions? Thanks! BTW, my whole post is in Newcomers-HELP big talk on Sunday! 
