i agree w/everyone else....be very careful. Bringing a child in is the last thing that you would want to do in your sitch....Your just starting to try and work everything out. Although i know it sounds fun, best off to wait a bit and see where the M is down the road. Also i wouldn't agree w/wife or say cool if she says she's thinking about having another child. That's sending the wrong idea to her. just me 2 cents!