I know what you are going thru, too. My H says he will call or text and he doesn't and I used to get so agitated as you well know.
Now, I have just given up thinking that he will call or text. I have to be the one to remain in a stable frame of mind because if I don't, nobody else will.
Just be kind and love unconditionally. I think when we do this, when we least expect it, we will be greatly rewarded and it will pay off.
I have thought many, many times of telling my husband off but when I start to think about it I think, what will it accomplish. He is miserable without me having to tell him so.
I want our home to be a safe and relaxing place and one that is full of love and comfort not the opposite.
It takes a lot out of us but believe me, God gives us strength that we think we don't have.
I have many down days but I have learned from them.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
