I just stood up to my wife and told her that we could not afford another after school program for the kids. we were already extended financially, as well as having to pay for the divorce, and she wants to keep on going since i have to pay for it.
if we were still together, i would have found some way to make it work out, but i can no longer make these herculean efforts on her behalf. I have been enabling her for years. that has been my fault as i allowed this to occur regularly.
i will learn to say no and stand behind my decisions. Another hopeful step to improving myself..........
