FG it does take a long time for them to make or show progress. If it helps make a list of all the positives and focus on those. For example: ( don't know what your list would be)

H sees d every sunday
H is going to IC
H has not filed for D
H wished me a happy birthday
H thanked me for the e-mail I sent
H sent child support on time
H fixed our leaky faucet
H showed up on time to pick up D

Focus on the positives and not what he is not doing and then you might have a better feeling about your h too.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"