FG it does take a long time for them to make or show progress. If it helps make a list of all the positives and focus on those. For example: ( don't know what your list would be)
H sees d every sunday H is going to IC H has not filed for D H wished me a happy birthday H thanked me for the e-mail I sent H sent child support on time H fixed our leaky faucet H showed up on time to pick up D
Focus on the positives and not what he is not doing and then you might have a better feeling about your h too.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"