Do you think you could make an instructional video, and post it on youtube????
You are amazing, thank you so much!!
Maybe instead of trying to superimpose flirtatious behaviors from outside, I can unlock my inner superflirt and gradually expand to more shoe dangling, lip tapping, hair stroking and... crotch glancing!!
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Oh, and (this is from the CEO flirtation text book), when you see B next time, if you're sitting next to each other subtley rest your thigh against his. He (if he's anything like me) won't be able to tell what this means, and you'll have the excuse of just spreading out. Hopefully B will then spend hours wondering what it all meant!
LOL!!!! HILARIOUS esp. b/c I have been trying to maintain "comfortalbe friendly distance" at all times. This reminds me of a story that happened to B's best friend... B'sBF was taking a chemistry class, and this HOT girl came over to his chair, kneeled next to him, and then rested her melons ON HIS ARM while talking to him. Ay YI YI!!!! Later B'sBF accidentally spilled acid on this girl during an experiment and ruined her designer jeans ... and then offered to take her shopping to buy a new pair.
maybe I just should start carrying... acid around.
"use them in combination for devastating maximum effect"... should that be the title of my next thread???
But OD... if he's not returning my calls, how do I implement the new SuperFlirtPlan?
Jeff, you make me laugh out loud!!! thank you for giving us some empirical data from the male perspective that OD's techniques are indeed ... effective!!
You know I reckon that it might be good to step it up with the 'B you rocked my world sexually and I think about it all the time'. From where I am that seems like it fits your sitch really well... Can you imagine saying it to him over the phone?
You are so onto it with the thought that you have to show it with actions rather than a letter. I think its much less pressure to compliment rather than apologise, cause he may feel an obligation to match your apology.
Lisa - what do you think? Is it coming on too strong?
Yay for superflirt T! I want to hear what response you get when you start flirting with everyone! Practise makes perfect!
Wish that he had returned your call.... Its OK, you can wait, or you can reach out again. Can you send him a text message with a question in it that he needs to answer?
Whats your plan?
I want to know what Jeff thinks too ((Jeff)) - you are amazing how you pop in on all of us girls and give us such good advice and encouragement.
I think you can "practice" to a degree, everyday. In fact, in most everyday situations it is pretty "safe", everyone knows it isn't going anywhere, and yet everyone gets a PMA boost.
I have to think about hitting him with the "world rocking" statement, that might be a bit too much. At least that's my first instinct.
I'm so happy that you're unlocking your inner flirt. I love flirting- it's so fun, and really makes people feel good about themselves. And I'm so happy everyone else enjoyed my flirting suggestions aswell!
I like Essie's plan of stepping it on on the phone flirting..... so, when you speak on the phone, imagine kissing him and doing all sorts of unimaginable things to him. This will automatically cause your voice to drop in town and slow down and sound sexier and as though you have something naughty on your mind. Then mention that you were thinking about him the other day and you remembered how hot he was. Leave the thought hanging for a moment and then change the subject to something you can laugh and joke about. It'll get him thinking about what you meant and plant a seed of thought in his mind.....
Is that something you could do when you next speak to him T? Obviously it depends how the conversation goes, but might be worth a go. I'm also sorry he didn't return your call yet. Time and patience- you're the QUEEN on that, and plans- do you have one?
I'm so glad to hear from you. I feel like crap right now, I think I am having some kind of school/career identity crisis, I just want to curl up in a little ball and cry for hours and then sleep for several days. In my cello lesson today my teacher told me she thought the pieces I had picked were too hard for me to learn in 2 months, then I played really badly and almost cried in my lesson... I don't know what's going on with me. I wish I could go to see my individual counselor.
I'm not sure about the "you rocked my world" plan... it intrigues me but I wonder if it would be too much "pushing", or if I could "pull it off" without puking on myself with fear?? I used to compliment him all the time and we flirt a ton and have lots of innuendo.....
I think turning apologies into compliments is a really good idea. I think if I had a couple statements kind of 'prepared' then I could slip them in at a good moment... for example when he suggested we go to a strip club for dessert and I told him that it was too bad I didn't bring my socks, i could have said something like, "you know, we might have to get a private room in the club because you're the only one I would only want to look at" or something like that.
But, I am not sure it would be productive to really just throw it in there from out of left field? I think it depends on the vibe.
Right now, I am going to wait until I feel more sociable before reaching out to him... or practicing flirting.
Essie, thanks for your suggestion that I text him some question that he "had" to answer. I thought of two questions... he met a really awesome viola teacher this summer, and one of my best friends is looking at grad schools for viola, so I could ask him about that... or the title of a movie he recommended (whose name I can't remember) to add to my netflix queue. ???? kind of scraping the bottom of the barrel though????
Sending you a huge hug. I am so sorry about the crisis you are going through. Your teacher sounds very negative - that's not what you need. I'm sure you can do the pieces that you have picked - what's stopping you? Is there something you are afraid of?
Retail therapy and chocolate always helps in situations like this!
You know best about the 'rock your world' plan. It will come naturally to you when you are next in contact with him. I like Lisas ideas about phone flirting.
You will know when you are ready.
Sending you the hugest hug! You can get through this.
YAY! Have a wonderful day, and I'm so sorry I didn't see this earlier. I hope today is better than yesterday. Your teacher sounds like a big meanie and I don't like her. You're wonderful- don't forget it.
Happy Birthday to you Happy Birthday to you Happy Birthday ((((My Lovely)))) Happy Birthday to you!
And I'm so happy everyone else enjoyed my flirting suggestions aswell! 
In my cello lesson today my teacher told me she thought the pieces I had picked were too hard for me to learn in 2 months, then I played really badly and almost cried in my lesson... I don't know what's going on with me. I wish I could go to see my individual counselor.