5 weeks remain til next chapter starts

[istherehope]

Hi Pisces,

Thanks so much. I was hoping to hear from you on this one :).

Basically I was telling Jody that my biggest concern was how to bring up the end of the initial sep period. She agreed that he sees it as terrifying (having spoken with him a few times), and thinks I should not bring up R talks. She said the best way to deal with the sitch is to try and have the whole thing happen "de facto". If I ASK him what he wants, he will certainly say more time, which neither she nor I think is the best choice for the R. We HAVE agreed on 3 months as a checkin period. She says he can't just vaporize me...anyway we'll see what she says on Wednesday (joint session) and Thursday (individual session). The moving in sounds TERRIFYING, though in some ways totally right.

Thanks for saying the email doesn't seem final. I just feel today like everything is over. I AM doing the right DB things, but they still don't feel right. I feel like he's shut the door to me.

Anyway I think I'll send Jody the email before the session so she has all the info at hand.

Thank you SO much Pisces!

ITH