Stuff she charges now is in her own name. I think locking down my finances is where I need to focus.
Right now I'm trying to decide wether I should confront her one more time about the cheating before I stop paying things that are not mine. And I need to figure out what to do about her car payment. (which is in both of our names) I don't want to pay her stuff but if I don't it will ruin my formerly perfect credit.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08