Get mad,get strong;wipe your hands..then u STAND!

[glamgirl]

Treese sorry you are hurting like this. How are you expecting your h to act? It could be his coping mechanism to act like all is just casual. I do remember a long time ago soon after all this happened in my sitch where we were out with h's family and there was some history and h just acted like it was all good.

I was shocked. He didn't say hey I am so sorry or anything acted as if the issues between family never happened. I just think it was my h's way of handling all that he could. Just act as if it's all good.

You really don't know what he is really thinking. I am sure he is hurting inside and because it is all out in the open he might be having a peace about the situation because he can't change what happened 8 years ago. He can't make this situation go away.