hey my friends)))))))))))) you keep it up and I'm going to get a big head, lol!

As I give him advice I try not ask specifics and try to talk in general terms, the less I know of his life the better, for all I know it could be an "off"time with gf and next you know he'll be done with the emotional blanket I provide and he'll run to gf again.

I worry about the kids a bit too, though I see he's done a lot for them, gotten the townhome, fixed it, made up their rooms, actually makes them their lunch and stuff he'd never done before. I ask to have them this sunday a bit more and he said to keep them since he was feeling bad and didn't want to bore the kids (he's taking off without kids next week, where? I don't know and dont' want to ask).

I dont' want to let him off the hook about his parenting duties, but I also want to make sure he's well enough to keep them, that's half the reason I talk to him.

I'll try to point him in the right direction without involving myself too much, he used to be a good man, I pray that he finds himself. LN, I will try to remember that phrase which helped me so much, that I can't save him, he has to do it on his own.

Althea, I truly love my life, I took on another volunteer position and it has to do with what I like to do for a living, I'm excited about it and the supervisor of the organization is pretty cute, lol! I wouldnt' mind a cup of coffee with him \:\)

I fill my days without the kids to the brim, I go to my dear zumba or the gym, then go to my brother and sister's to play with their babies, they feed me \:D , then I catch a movie alone or with someone at the local cinema drafthouse (had my first chocolate martini on monday) and go to sleep at my brother's (sil gave me my own key). Though some nights I have to stay home to finish my son's mural and finish painting his room. So much to do so little time!

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.