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Re: My life is a telenovela Truelove #1590193 09/12/08 02:54 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	True, I have decided that I am holding onto negativity too much. And while I think we need our time to grieve...eventually we have to move on or it becomes a pity party...and THAT is not good. In essence, my H has been missing for 3 years...and finally, I have found out that he is, in fact, dead. The man I loved will never come back...so I grieve for that loss...even though I have been grieving for 3 years.... Time for me to move on... Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1590264 09/12/08 03:50 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	my aunt and uncle are battening down the hatches in Houston as we speak!!!

Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1590487 09/12/08 06:38 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Jinkies I am glad I live 150 miles inland! We are going to get rain and wind gusts up to 70 mph or so they say... Some people just love the drama...I say: *pour me some more wine!* Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1590587 09/12/08 08:03 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal K KarenMarieS Member
KarenMarieS Member K Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal	Stay Safe Valentine Inland is good at times like this, stay snuggled in your house! Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life

Re: My life is a telenovela KarenMarieS #1590597 09/12/08 08:11 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Inland is very, very excellent! Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1591064 09/13/08 01:00 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Vali, I am glad to read that you live 150 miles inland! I hope you will not get any strong winds where you live. Keep safe. Quote: In essence, my H has been missing for 3 years...and finally, I have found out that he is, in fact, dead. The man I loved will never come back...so I grieve for that loss...even though I have been grieving for 3 years.... Oh, how I understand you. It is the same for me. I am trying to enjoy myself as much as I can. Have a lovely week-end. (((HUGS)))

Re: My life is a telenovela Truelove #1592221 09/15/08 01:53 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Hi True! Luckily the storm swung away from us and we had beautiful weather all weekend! I was very safe although some cousins who live near Houston did stay at my parents house and are still there... Yes, dear, we have to enjoy ourselves as much as we can...we will weather THIS storm and be better for it... At least, for me there is closure. I am thankful to God for that...the healing has truly begun for me... ((((((((((((((((((((((((((Truelove)))))))))))))))))))))))))) Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1594069 09/16/08 10:32 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Vali, I am glad that you are safe and sound and hope your cousins will be as well. I started to get worried and checked your thread for a post from you. Yes, we will weather THIS storm and I am happy that healing has begun for you. That is a big step forward. I wish you all the best and happiness in your future life. Take care. (((HUGS))) xxx

Re: My life is a telenovela Truelove #1595192 09/17/08 08:21 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	It was a gorgeous weekend here. Nothing but blue sky! It has turned cooler here...early for a change!!! It is normally very hot until October...I love the Fall weather...I love the cool. It is hard to heal...and I am trying not to remain angry because that will lead to bitterness and I don't want to be bitter...that is a complete waste in my opinion. I had an appointment with my L today...hopefully I will be divorced by the end of the year... Hugs! Vali Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1595197 09/17/08 08:27 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	hey vali...its ok to be angry and you have the right to be angry and you are not the type of person to let anger consume you

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