Maybe not in a "terrific" place but far beter that I was before..
take a breath Red. You know my history I HAVE BEEN THERE. He needes to decide to move on or not.
I have kept my promise when I got married. this is not a tit for tat. This is real. If I remember right you came close also to making a "mistake" once done it can never be undone. If it does not work out I will not need to say to my son. "Well dad started seeing this other woman becasue your mom needed help...."
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know