At that point, he could figure out if he is ready to start dating. In the meantime, IT DOESN'T HURT to look around i.e. the woman he saw at school.
His wife is in absolutely no position, and this is what it sounds to me from what he has written AND COMPLETELY MY OPINION I better add so I don't "get in trouble" for giving advice to anyone again, to be in any sort of relationship. I FEEL he has done enough to try to help her and now it's time for her to help herself, but she doesn't seem to want to do that. How long exactly is he supposed to wait for her to figure things out?
Again, get off YOUR HIGH HORSE -- did you even read my second post to you. Ok, now I'm done though b/c I'm not going to hijack his post anymore w/ this petty back & forth. He can read what we both have said and take it how he wants to take it. It's advice -- he can take it to heart or he can take it as a grain of salt. HE'S GOING TO DO WHAT HE'S GOING TO DO IN THE LONG RUN ANYWAY.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
