True, I have decided that I am holding onto negativity too much. And while I think we need our time to grieve...eventually we have to move on or it becomes a pity party...and THAT is not good.
In essence, my H has been missing for 3 years...and finally, I have found out that he is, in fact, dead. The man I loved will never come back...so I grieve for that loss...even though I have been grieving for 3 years....
Time for me to move on...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
