Yep, she is thinking BIG TIME!!! THe contract and pictures piss her off because she knows it's true. When she said the whole "my choice" thing, you should have agreed matter of factly. She glared for no reason.....and you can remind her that....it WAS her choice...NOT yours. You reminded her you are still married and you still have hope. That was good. DOn't tell her that you have to make this all ok, REMIND her that there is nothing she can do to make this ALL OK for the kids....They will be affected, they ARE affected...because of HER decision. Believe it or not, these convos with her, and the way you handled it by being matter of fact about her choice and how it is affecting the kids, are GOOD.
