Again, I just don't see it getting much better or being any different inside her head any time soon. I'm no longer holding my breath and waiting.RTL
That is where you need to be. Is there any timeline on going to court? An out-of-court settlement would be preferable, but she seems so invested in your being the root of all evil that she might not concede anything.
On the other hand...a pending court date puts a deadline on negotiations. That might help with a settlement.