In order for me to detach more, I need to see him less--whether that's DBing or not. For now, I need distance, no-contact. As it is now, I see him at least once, sometimes twice a day--which MUST STOP. Even if I act as if, it's very stressful for me. I hate it. HATE IT.

Because of our Ds differing school locations and schedules, one of has to take each of them to school every morning. It's led to what I think are insanely complicated logistics, and it means that I have to see H constantly.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08