In order for me to detach more, I need to see him less--whether that's DBing or not. For now, I need distance, no-contact. As it is now, I see him at least once, sometimes twice a day--which MUST STOP. Even if I act as if, it's very stressful for me. I hate it. HATE IT.
Because of our Ds differing school locations and schedules, one of has to take each of them to school every morning. It's led to what I think are insanely complicated logistics, and it means that I have to see H constantly.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08