Also, I'm not taking the fact you have a daughter lightly either. I know divorce is ugly and could be even uglier in your sitch as far as how your W has been acting. However, sometimes the positives outweigh the negatives in these situations. Your D could be better off growing up knowing another adult woman (such as your new girlfriend, to be wife, etc.) as it doesn't seem that your W is going to be all that great of an influence on how women should live their lives on your D.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10