Also, I'm not taking the fact you have a daughter lightly either. I know divorce is ugly and could be even uglier in your sitch as far as how your W has been acting. However, sometimes the positives outweigh the negatives in these situations. Your D could be better off growing up knowing another adult woman (such as your new girlfriend, to be wife, etc.) as it doesn't seem that your W is going to be all that great of an influence on how women should live their lives on your D.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10