T2L, Yes, I saw most of that episode today. Why does it seem like everytime you turn around there is some blip on TV about affairs?I watched M and J show couple months ago. They were talking about why women have affairs and what type men they are typically attracted to. #1 type man most women were attracted to? THE SOCCER COACH!! Ok, mine's a baseball coach- close enough. Anyway , thanks for the reminder about the book.