Twin Hope, Sounds like you had a hard day. First things first. Forgive your self if you feel you didn't DB as well as you wanted to. Today is gone and tomorrow is new so leave yesterday in yesterday. I posted a few books. I love the DB books a lot! The DB book is about relationships and is awesome and I'm using it. But I have also read a few others that have been very very helpful and strictly deal in Affairs. Please go and get one or both of them. You need more ammunition to fight for your marriage and the more the better. Try and seem unmoved perky and confident when you see him or speak to him. This is what the OW is like, and what your competing with. Don't give up hope just yet. If he says he spoke to a lawyer just as much as possible try not to be moved. Hows GAL going? Have you signed up for a hobby, dance class, gym etc.?
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca