NC, I'm glad you're doing ok it sounds like well physically. I'm so sorry about your W. She is so messed up!!! I've always thought my H and your W were pretty much the same awful, but when I had a minor surgery a couple months ago, he was nice for that one day at least, and had enough compassion to stop being a jerk for one day. Obviously, your W is clueless, horrible, and I'm shocked at her behavior!

NC, I would never ask her for anything again and go as dark as possible. She doesn't deserve to have you in her life and until she realizes that (if ever) I would just stay away from her as much as possible. She's one of those toxic people like my C says we should stay away from. I'm sorry I'm being so nasty, but just feel so bad for you that she would treat you like that when you just had your surgery and sedation!!! Karen

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