[quote=puppy]And guys, I didn't mean I'm getting bombarded here on the board. I meant in my real life. With all these situations and people coming at me. I'm practically being CHEERED on. Like, "Good for you. It's about damn time you go and find someone that appreciates you."
Oh, I think we've all experienced a lot of that!!! When I got my D papers, I had several people say Congratulations or great news or whatever. They are horrified by my H and wouldn't even think I would ever consider giving him a chance, and that is more true each and every day. I never even told anybody but you guys my true feelings. And the truth is they don't know what they would do in our place. I have 2 family members that are horrified by my H and wanted me to file immediately, but when they were in that situation, one was the WAS and the other LBS and they didn't do the same! They're been together again for years now!!!! I think your friends and family just want to see you happy and they see D as accomplishing that, which it may or may not. Karen
