We're never getting back together-How do you cope?

[onedge]

W has not really been playing OL for long, but has deffinately had an internet addiction for a while now.

I can understand why she wanted out, and why she still doesn't want to try, it's one of the reasons that I am really trying to make things with me better.

I do think that she has problems dealing with her emotions and feelings, and to a point she relies on her depression as a reason for her actions and how she feels. I think that she is scared to take control of things and make herself better because if she does, then she has nothing else to blame but herself.

It's sad to hear that you lost your way for a while, you have been a big help for me, as long as you are happy in what you are doing it's fine. so if you do decide at some point that you would be happier W/out your W i'll offer any support I can, just let me know

"You W is trying to avoid the pain (the teacher) by the fantasy of gaming. When she couldn't do that anymore, she had less buffer between herself and her reality. That made her irritable."

I was just happy that I left her feeling better, she actually wanted to talk to me a little bit after that aswell for a problem with her computer, I could fix it but she said "her brother would kill her" (this is the one that I have been friends with for years and still get along with) he works in a computer shop and is more a hardware problem person, so i don't take offence to it. I think she would have asked me if it wasn't for him (or I hoped she would have :P )

I'm not going to read anything into any of it, i am in a good mood, and I don't want to get my hopes up just yet, it is early days.

I keep thinking about the whole Aliens thing, i think i'm doing ok to keep them happy, maybe they will bring back W at some point