No Jen, Actually - I have the control issue. I do admit that. Well, lets see ... if you were a man would you rather drive a 2 seater convertable or a 4 door compact car???? (When we/I bought it he said it was the nicest car he ever had). Ask your XH - which he would prefer (out of curiosity)?

So yes - since the bomb he has been in control of both of us. Finally, I'm taking back control of ME only - again.

Also remember my H is depressed & in debt & me well, through his eyes I have everything.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)