Hey, I would recommend everyone check out the Advice from Wise Divorce Busters forum. Especially good for me was the SubForum on pg. 2 titled Updating Good Advice. Must read stuff. Helped me today.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09